MICHELLAR
CROSSED by MICHELLAR is about a moment when trust and emotion collide and leave their strong mark. Somehow, the words seem to be simple, but the emotional weight that comes along with them is immense. MICHELLAR writes of the connection where trust has been breached to the point where feelings are no longer shared in the same way. A hint of frustration is evident, possibly from holding on to something that is going away already.
Emotional boundary overstepping is revisited throughout the song. It seems to be “addressed” that someone has violated another individual’s emotional threshold to the extent that tangible hurt was arbitrarily brought about, though not with care or understanding. The feeling is repetitive in occurrence, therefore the pain isn’t sudden. The repetition in these words also mirrors the hardness of going on from a moment that plays in the mind.
Another powerful theme in CROSSED is loss of control. MICHELLAR voices the discomfort of realizing there is nothing that one can do to change another person’s actions and choices. This lack of control is not calm or accepted; it feels tense and unsettling. The lyrics reflect an inner battle between wanting to react and knowing reacting will not resolve anything. That gives that song its emotional charge.
There is also a contrast of nearness and farness. MICHELLAR writes about physical presence, while emotional connection is lacking. There is a feeling of disorientation wherein two people are still near each other but no longer connected with each other. The words speak of anger rising from such disequilibrium, mixed with sadness and dismay.
Even where the lyrics suggest violent thoughts, they come off as honest rather than violent. They’re raw emotion in that instant anger, not a wish to harm but a wish to be noticed and seen. It’s this honesty which people find to relate to with the song, as this is a feeling many people acknowledge, even if they might not act upon it.
Overall, the lyrics of CROSSED by MICHELLAR turn an angry, emotional exchange into a clear and focused cry of hurt, anger, and realization. The simplicity of the language lets the feelings do the talking, which makes the message very strong and straightforward without using complexity.